Log into tumblr for the first time in months and first thing I see is someone being disgusting to one of the survivors of the Valentine’s Day school shooting because they might be “aphobic”
when are we gonna stop using the word “abusive” as a synonym for “just being an asshole”
hate 2 break this 2 yall but the world isnt split up into nice people and abusers. being cruel or manipulative in the absence of an observable pattern of behavior and an established power dynamic isnt abuse. sometimes people are just shitty
Sometimes I listen to conservative Christian talk radio in my car out of fascination. One nugget of wisdom they dropped for women trying to regain passion with their husbands was “You can make a trip to Home Depot romantic”
